Is she the one who is at fault? Or .......

This is like when I had not taken drugs be it pharmaceuticals or illicit , I will stick to the first option.

 After marring my wife Kim or " Dear Dear " we went through thick and thin together.

         I really love my wife even though we had a lot of arguments till I fear she will leave me.
She uses vagary to me and at my Dad these few weeks. I have this feeling I will be like in her shoos when she was younger around my age